Before my wife and I separated (as amicably as possible; my ex- is a terrific person and I’m grateful that she put up with me for 25 years), I lived in a great neighborhood in Wakefield. Which, in a roundabout way, is why I’m looking forward to living at Bay State Commons, our cohousing community… Read More
When Someone Wants to Say Something No One Wants to Hear
As cohousers we generally believe in the principle that everyone gets a voice. We think of ourselves as taking all views into account and welcoming differences of opinions. But what about when we don’t? What do you do if someone has more to say after others in the community are past tired of hearing it?… Read More
How to Create an Agenda – Part 2
Careful agenda-setting is an essential element in preparing for a good meeting, and often an area where a little effort can make big improvements in meetings and community relationships. Agenda creation includes two distinct parts: 1. Choosing the topics to be discussed. 2. Determining how those topics will be… Read More
How to Create an Agenda – Part 1
Careful agenda-setting is an essential element in preparing for a good meeting, and often an area where a little effort can make big improvements in meetings and community relationships. Agenda creation includes two distinct parts: 1. Choosing the topics to be discussed. 2. Determining how those topics will be… Read More
Interview: Heartwood Cohousing
Robert “Han” Bishop is a resident of Heartwood Cohousing in Bayfield Colorado. Heartwood is a rural community with a large property and many self-sustaining practices. In this interview, Han describes his experience living there, how he and his wife came to move there and something of the cycles of life they are experiencing. https://vimeo.com/378639869?fbclid=IwAR3CCXooc_D_skL4j-TkbUjdfFbRGbyIn4luc9XDuU03Ud4yQftJnO4PuY8
WebChat #39 Karen Gimnig on Personal Growth
Karen’s recent WebChat challenged us to see personal growth as one of the most important reasons for cohousing. She explained how cohousing, in part through conflict, provides an ideal environment for becoming better humans. In particular it is a space in which we grow the skills for collaboration which are so needed in our society… Read More